Every marriage/union/friendship… has trouble at least sometimes. When two or more people share anything, there is the potential for conflict. Solutions exist. Humans have been around long enough and are developed enough that SOMEONE SOMEWHERE has the answer. Can’t sleep in the same bed? Get two small beds. Can’t sleep in the same room? Sleep in separate rooms. Toilet seat up or down? Get the toilet lid closing device called “Flush Down” and BOTH of you will always have to lift the lid first (fair and equal). Don’t like the same flavors? Eat different foods. Don’t like the same shows/movies? Get two tv’s. Love is not about sharing STUFF, it’s about sharing SOULS. Don’t let stuff get between you. Let’s share our ideas/solutions.